Pastoral counseling involves a helping relationship
between a religiously affiliated counselor and an individual, couple,
or family who seek assistance for coping with life. Pastoral counselors
include ordained ministers and consecrated professionals licensed in the
field of counseling and therapy.
The
word “pastoral” indicates that services are provided which are
sensitive to the spiritual viewpoints and values of counselees
regardless of their faith affiliation. A respect for the faith dimension of human experience
is an important contribution of the pastoral counseling movement to the
mental health field. Pastoral counseling assumes that a counselee’s
spiritual life has value in helping to heal emotional wounds, resolve
conflicts, facilitate life transitions, and clarify values and purpose.
Pastoral counseling often takes the form of a specialized ministry within a church,
where pastors or professional counselors offer pastoral counseling
under the auspices of pastoral care. However, pastoral counseling can
also function as an outreach ministry
to a local hospital, homeless shelter, or independent counseling
center; or it may serve persons through the chaplaincy in a prison,
military base, or college campus.
I
know of a pastor who has collaborated with the police department in his
hometown for over twenty years. Early on they so valued his
contributions that they gave him a badge with the title “Police
Chaplain.” Over the decades his phone has rung regularly for calls
involving domestic disputes.
Pastoral counselors meet a wide range of human needs.
For instance, a counselee who is grieving the loss of a loved one; a
couple who need premarital counseling or help raising step-children; an
individual addicted to substances; a person dealing with adverse work
conditions; a parent overwhelmed by young children or adolescents; a
family being torn apart by forces they don’t understand; or a person
searching for intimacy with God.
By transforming broken personalities and reconciling damaged relationships,
pastoral counseling helps persons and communities to become living
expressions of God’s redemptive love in the concreteness of daily life.
Most
pastoral counselors have academic training in addition to religious
credentials. These may include the Master of Divinity or Doctor of
Ministry degrees, with a specialty in pastoral counseling. If a pastor
has not had opportunity to study counseling in seminary, there are excellent Internet and external degree programs in pastoral counseling
offered through credible institutions that strengthen competence in
counseling. For instance, I offer an online course for 4 CE (Pastoral Counseling: The Intersection of Psychology and Spirituality) through the Zur Institute.
On the other hand, some pastoral counselors meet with counselees on the basis of their religious credentials alone; Biblical counseling,
for example, emphasizes helping parishioners respond to a crisis
primarily through empathetic listening, prayer, and biblical
instruction.
Consecrated mental health workers
who work in religious settings or private practice are often licensed
as psychologists, professional counselors, or marriage and family
therapists. They may work in private practice or band together to form a
church-based counseling center.
Personally, I see pastoral counseling as hugely important to the life of the Church and the witness to the community, embodying the truth that God ministers compassionately and wisely to human need, and that anything human is worthy of understanding.
As I approach seventy years of age, I realize I've carried on pastoral counseling for almost forty years. I wouldn't trade a moment of the enriching and inspiring conversations I've enjoyed with several thousand individuals and couples. Lord willing, I hope to keep these conversations going until the day I pass from this earthly life to eternal life with Christ. And then I'll talk over with him the things I learned and the prayers I shared with so many precious people.
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